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Why Parents Shouldn't Say "Well Done" to Their Child: 4 Replacement Phrases
15.12.2023 00:30
Saying the word "well done" is perhaps the most popular way to praise a child.
However, this method of expressing approval should still be abandoned.
After all, a compliment has a serious drawback - it is a cliché. In addition, such praise does not mention the child's achievement itself.
And one more thing: the use of the word “well done” often turns into a ritual in which the child sees no meaning.
How can you replace a boring compliment? There are four good options.
"You did great!"
This phrase is good because it reflects the result of the child’s activity.
The baby immediately understands what kind of achievement his parents are pleased with.
"You made us happy"
It would be good if, instead of saying the word “well done,” parents described their emotions caused by their child’s success.
"Now the room is pleasant to be in"
Or you can not praise the child at all and not show admiration.
It is enough to simply point out the results of the work: “Now the room is tidy”, “Now you have started to study better”, “Now all the plates are clean”.
The child will be happy, because he will understand why he tried so hard.
"Thank you for your help"
Gratitude from parents is quite capable of replacing any praise.
Show your child that without his help you would not have been able to cope with this or that task.
Earlier we listed the prohibition phrases that should not be heard from the lips of parents.
