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How to Stop Arguing with Children: Psychologists Suggest Effective Methods
26.10.2023 12:33
Many parents know from experience that children simply love to argue.
Adults are not happy with this situation.
We want the child to respect the authority of elders and listen to our opinions.
What tricks will help you argue less with your children
Think about your child's feelings and thoughts
Often children join in an argument only because they are convinced that your beliefs are unfair. Therefore, it is always worth putting yourself in the child’s place.
This will also help reduce the number of conflict situations.
Don't react too impulsively.
Sometimes parents are so offended by the situation of an argument with a child that they begin to get involved emotionally and impulsively. Children feel that they were able to "push" you.
This means that the parents' position in the eyes of the child has become weaker. Therefore, it is always worth keeping yourself in hand.
Find the right direction for logic
If a child has learned to argue well, then this is a good sign: children master logical thinking and build chains of arguments in their heads.
Another issue is that arguing with parents can hardly be called a reasonable use of one's talents. Experts recommend finding discussion clubs for such talented children so that they can hone the art of correct arguing.
