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You can throw all your efforts into raising a child and still not get any “return”.
It is far from certain that the baby will demonstrate trust in the mother and affection for her.
Moreover, it is possible that the child will be depressed due to overprotection.
In order for your child to perceive you as an ideal mother, you need to give him more freedom. In addition, you need to give up the imperative tone.
So, what rules should you follow in order for your baby to start to adore you?
Sometimes children are immersed in the world of fairy tales and games. As a result, the child begins to fantasize and tell made-up stories.
Not all parents listen to their child in such a situation. And in vain. Show that you take the child's statements seriously.
Don't refuse to talk or act like you're "busy." Long conversations with your baby help strengthen your emotional connection with him.
"Don't interfere in your elders' conversations!", "You're too young to express your opinion!". Phrases like these should be avoided.
The child should not get the impression that his opinion does not matter.
If this is allowed, the child will become insecure and will not feel needed by his parents.
Did your child not finish his dinner? Do not force him to finish the dish under any circumstances.
The schoolchild hasn't done his homework? Don't scold him, but help him by turning homework into an exciting game.
Never refuse a child if he asks for help.
If you want your baby to trust you, help him and protect him.
If you force a child to follow a particular rule, be sure to set an example of the desired behavior.
Your child is unlikely to trust you if you forbid him to say a certain phrase, but at the same time continue to use similar words in your speech.