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What 3 attitudes parents instill in their children in vain: experts' opinion
29.07.2023 20:08
The role of education plays an even greater role in the formation of personality than we sometimes may assume.
Therefore, it is extremely important to give children the right attitudes, as they can harm the child.
What attitudes should you abandon?
You have to be the best at everything.
Of course, parents want their children to be the best in everything. This allows adults to feel a sense of pride in their heirs.
Success also allows us to hope that the child will become even more talented in the future. So what could be wrong with such an attitude? The child will always strive for an unattainable ideal, setting impossible goals and tasks for himself. As a result, he can spend his whole life trying to do the impossible.
But one could direct one’s efforts in a more positive direction.
You can't show your weakness to anyone.
Many people cultivate the image of a strong person who cannot be frightened or upset by anything. However, any person can and should experience emotions.
If you constantly hide your feelings, it will not lead to anything good, experts believe.
You need to be friends with everyone
The ability to negotiate and build social connections is extremely important. We learn these qualities in early childhood. However, you should not force a child to literally be friends with everyone.
Adults impose such a line of behavior so that the child learns to benefit from such connections. But it is better to teach the child other things. Let children choose their own friends instead of trying to please and be liked by everyone.
