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How to behave correctly for parents of an insecure child: psychologists have revealed 5 rules
16.07.2023 21:00
Problems with self-confidence in children are common, so it is important for parents to learn how to respond correctly to this characteristic.
Some adult behavior patterns can only make the situation worse.
At the same time, some methods will help make children more confident.
What are the five important things to pay attention to?
Don't force them to do anything that involves potential public humiliation.
Sometimes you can find a recommendation that insecure children should overcome their fear by public speaking. It is worth noting that even with adults this method rarely works.
If a child is faced with a situation of public humiliation, he may completely lose faith in himself, experts note.
Leave the criticism
If children have problems with self-esteem and self-confidence, then criticism will only make the situation worse. In such cases, it is wiser to pay attention to the support and help of parents.
Cultivate only what the child is passionate about
Only self-confident children who can cope with any task without problems can achieve results "through I don't want to". If an insecure child is forced to achieve success in this way, then nothing good will come of it.
Let the children choose what they want to do. If the activity is successful, they can believe in themselves.
Love and support
A positive and kind attitude from parents can work wonders. So create the most positive atmosphere for your child.
Help
If insecure children have problems, then parents should help them to eliminate them. As soon as the reasons for complexes disappear, then self-esteem and self-confidence will immediately begin to increase.
