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What Wise Parents Don't Let Their Adult Children Do
15.06.2023 21:37
The topic of relationships between parents and children will always be relevant.
Usually, mothers and fathers are patient with the whims of children, comfort them. But with age, when children grow up, you need to understand that you need to understand in time how to behave further.
Still, there are cases when already grown-up children forget that their parents are adults with their own lives and interests. Therefore, it is important to discuss some things, and not turn a blind eye to them.
No devaluation
If grown-up children allow themselves to ridicule their parents' lifestyle or interests, it means that mistakes were made in their upbringing. Good advice and discussion of the problem are normal, but criticism and outright ridicule are unacceptable behavior.
Lack of respect for personal boundaries
In a family, everyone should help each other. But this does not mean that you can take things or money from your mom and dad's room without prior permission.
As adults, children should already understand the difference between their own and the general.
Manipulates parent with love
“If you love me, then”... is a phrase that already says that you need to expect certain conditions.
In this way, adult sons and daughters can probe and violate their parents’ personal boundaries, which can ultimately even lead to blackmail.
