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What a child should hear from his parents every day
18.03.2023 00:30
Updated: 14.04.2023 17:41
Often parents can scold their children for being rude to them, raising their voice or ignoring their requests. But perhaps mom and dad need to think about whether they are interacting with their child correctly, whether they are trying to hear and understand them.
All people are different, which means you need to find your own approach to each of them, and children are no exception.
Parents should learn to communicate with their child. What phrases should parents say to their child every day?
"I love you"
It doesn't matter how old a child is: 5 or 16, he wants to hear how close people tell him that they love him. Of course, it is not enough to tell a child only "I love you", it is also necessary to show love with your actions, be a good listener, spend your time on the child and not ignore his problems.
"I'm so glad we are your parents"
A child wants to know that he is wanted. Every person wants to be unique, especially when he is still growing and pays a lot of attention to how his parents treat him.
Very often children worry about their role in the family, especially when they have brothers and sisters, so parents should tell them more often that they still value them.
"You'll definitely cope with this."
Yes, perhaps the child himself knows that he will overcome all difficulties on the way to his goal, but this does not mean that he does not need the support of loved ones.
Sometimes a child, when faced with some tasks, may consider them unsolvable, and only a strong shoulder of a parent can convince him and make him move forward. Parents are the best motivation for children.
"What's new with you?"
Children rarely tell their parents about how their day went, especially if they have reached adolescence - then teenagers are no longer so willing to trust adults, they want to hide something from them.
However, if from early childhood parents take an interest in the child’s life, he will open up to mom and dad and at any age will share with them what is happening in his world.
