Often, the opinion of others is too important for a person. If at least one of his friends says something about clumsiness, a person with complexes can have a real storm in his head.
Such people want to be on top in the company, to show themselves as erudite and intelligent people, ready to support any topic and any conversation. But this does not always work out. And if knowledge and skills are not enough, then not only lies come to the rescue.
There are 7 ways to appear smart in a company and grow both socially and professionally. And not only in the eyes of others.
No alcohol
A 2012 study conducted by the Michigan Institute showed that people who drink alcohol are the ones who are laughed at the most in a group. Students were given photos of people at a party, some of whom were holding alcohol. The task was to point out the stupidest ones. And the students pointed out exactly the people with alcohol. Therefore, it is better to drink water instead of a martini in a group.
More laughter
If you are not in the mood and your head is filled with gloomy thoughts, you need to smile despite the circumstances. This is the conclusion reached by researchers at the Institute of St. Andrews in 2016. People who smile in photographs are considered the smartest.
Silence
For the more cautious, the most practical option to seem smarter is silence. At first glance, everything is so elementary that you just need to be silent and observe. Only the intention can disturb the interlocutor or an excessive glass of drink can loosen the tongue. Therefore, this method is suitable only for those who, for the sake of professionalism, do not interfere in the conversation, do not rush to the phone and avoid unnecessary contacts.
Good clothes
A decent coat and clean shoes can say a lot about a person. Often, this is why people start taking the other person's opinion into account. Good clothes have the ability to add status, and therefore, win hearts.
Hair color
The image of the dumb blonde from the 90s still lingers in the minds of some people. So even if your hair is light, it should be natural and well-groomed.
Ability to listen and observe
Smart people listen well. They always look for a new topic of conversation, try to understand the interlocutor, ask leading questions. It is definitely worth trying the image of an enthusiastic interviewer, which will allow you to always remain an interesting conversationalist.
Wild fantasy
The least attractive but effective way to look smart is to "lie". But such a white lie can quickly be exposed. The use of this method should be kept to a minimum. But if there is a desire to lie, the "new truth" should be thought out in advance to the smallest detail.
Thus, it is not necessary to be well-read and educated to seem smart. Sometimes a neat appearance, good clothes, literate speech, politeness and charisma are enough. Well, and a little bit of lying, and only in case of extreme necessity. It is worth remembering that there is no second chance to make a first impression!
Therefore, you should choose clean, well-chosen clothes, observe the rules of personal hygiene, pay attention to your posture. You need to act wisely, be well-informed, explain only what you understand at least a little, and ask smart questions that demonstrate a willingness to learn new things.
This way you can look smart and attract attention. Such people create a good impression of themselves and can further reveal their abilities both socially and professionally.
