Who doesn't want to be the life of the party, the person around whom life is bubbling and boiling? But often it turns out the other way around.
At the same time, you can be an educated person with a broad outlook. But in society you still won’t be able to gain fame.
According to experts, the reason lies in habits and behavior that push people away from us.
How to become attractive to everyone
1. When communicating with anyone, look your interlocutor in the eyes.
If people around you notice your shifty gaze, they will probably decide that you are either an insecure person or are hiding something.
And all because you don’t want to maintain eye contact.
2. Don’t be shy about expressing your emotions during a conversation – it brings people closer together and helps them find common ground.
Otherwise, the other person will start to think that you find communicating with him boring.
3. If you constantly adjust to the mood of your interlocutor, copying his behavior and emotions, those around you may consider you insincere.
4. If during a conversation you try to reduce the distance with a person, lean close to him, then this can cause discomfort or irritation in the interlocutor.
5. Pay attention to your posture and stance.
If you hunch over or cross your arms while talking, you are either communicating your lack of confidence or trying to isolate yourself from people.
6. Try to remain calm during the conversation, do not jerk your legs, do not twirl pens or pencils in your hands.
And if you have to gesticulate, do not make sudden movements, do not grimace, and do not try to dominate.
And another detail that irritates all educated people is the habit of making quotation marks with your fingers in the air.
