Family happiness depends not only on the partner. Sometimes it is psychological attitudes and personal problems that prevent a person from becoming happy.
This applies to women who choose the role of a victim for themselves, when they intuitively choose a man as their partner with whom they will not be able to build a healthy relationship from the start.
Experts have explained how a female victim behaves and what signs give her away.
Does not express emotions
The female victim divides emotions into right and wrong.
The latter include negative emotions that a partner could cause with their behavior.
If you feel that you have something to say to your partner, then don’t hide it and say it as it is.
Doubts his own feelings
A female victim needs the presence of an authoritative person who could always dispel her doubts and give practical advice.
If you hear what your inner voice is telling you, don't silence it and don't doubt yourself.
Does not protect personal boundaries
They don’t understand at all where personal space begins and where other people’s responsibilities lie.
Therefore, many abuse their trust, their affection, take away their personal time, etc.
Doesn't fight, but endures
You can’t believe that if you endure a little, everything will soon get better and normal life will begin.
There is no reason to be proud of the torments you have endured. It is better to think that you can live comfortably and not deny yourself your desires.
Doesn't show initiative
In this case, the initiative concerns the woman’s personal interests, which she prefers not to think about.
Don't wait for fate to give you a chance to meet a good person - start acting yourself.
