While some dream of success, others are taking their first steps. No one promised that the path to the goal would be simple and short, so you need to be prepared for failures.
But you can insure yourself against mistakes by taking into account the experience of others, and then, perhaps, there will be one or two fewer bumps.
Experts believe that in most cases the following attitudes prevent you from achieving success in life.
First, someone else's example
It is difficult for a modern person to get rid of values imposed on him from the outside.
It is the idea of someone else’s success that prevents you from starting to live a full life and setting goals for yourself.
Therefore, it is important to stop copying someone else’s lifestyle and understand what exactly you personally want and what results certain actions will bring.
Secondly, condemnation of others
Surely everyone has a dream, but not everyone decides to make it come true, and all out of fear of “what will people say?”
If it is not immoral, not criminal, and without it life loses all meaning for you, you will have to fight your fears.
Only the person whose voice will be heard and whose advice will be balanced and sober can help.
There should no longer be any other opinion.
Third, past failures
This is also something akin to fear - to live in captivity of past failures, grievances and unpleasant memories.
You need to come to terms with the past and let it go. But first, you need to learn from the situation so you don't step on the same rake again and start doing at least something.
