Compliments are not only considered a sign of attention. Unscrupulous people often resort to them to lull the interlocutor's vigilance.
Then these are no longer compliments, but outright flattery or servility. Whatever it is, you can't believe these words and it's better not to say them yourself.
We'll tell you which three compliments you should ignore and never give yourself in order to preserve your good name.
The very best!
Then you can add smart, beautiful, humane, and so on. But in reality, this information often does not correspond to reality.
To come to your senses, just think about why the person needed to exalt you like that?
No one but you!
When people start whispering to you that you are the best specialist in your field and no one else can handle this task, know that they want to shift someone else's responsibilities onto you. This often happens at work.
Most likely, the person who is singing your praises at this very moment has already been turned down by the entire staff, and you are the last one on his list of volunteers.
You are the only one!
Such confessions are accompanied by words that there is no one else to rely on, that only you were able to support and come to the rescue, and so on.
Here everything is almost the same as in the second point, but this time the flatterer decided to openly abuse friendship or other high feelings.
Earlier we talked about what to do if you have nothing to talk about with a person.
