Unfortunately, many women do not watch their words.
In fact, literally every lady can make her own speech beautiful and meaningful. There would just have to be a desire.
Know that others judge you by your words. So, what phrases are forbidden for wise women?
"You are so smart and beautiful. This one is not worthy of you!"
Wise ladies carefully and tactfully support their friends and relatives. There is no other way.
It is not acceptable to tell a friend who recently broke up with her boyfriend that she chose the wrong person in an offensive manner.
She will consider herself a complete fool, since she was unable to see the main shortcomings of her ex-partner for a long time.
It turns out that the first phrase can in no way be called a compliment. It is also a kind of insult.
It is unacceptable to praise a friend and then immediately say how disgusting and terrible the person she loved was.
“You look so young, just like a girl!” “You’re probably over 50 already?”
It would never occur to wise women to judge someone else's age. They know that it is bad manners, that such words offend others.
That is why you cannot subtract years or, on the contrary, add them. The first statement will seem false to the interlocutor, and the second will greatly offend him.
There is only one way to estimate age: if a person asks how old he looks.
“I can’t handle this. Please do my job.” “I don’t have the knowledge and skills you do.”
Only stupid women admit their own unprofessionalism before they even start. Incidentally, irresponsible workers are quickly fired.
Sooner or later, the manager realizes that he is wasting his time paying money to an employee who is constantly slacking off at work.
It would never occur to a smart woman to burden a colleague with her work. And even more so, she would not say that another person works harder and faster.
Smart ladies conquer great heights on their own. They work honestly and overcome difficult obstacles on their own.
In their opinion, it is unacceptable to push off your responsibilities onto others. Only lazy people and weaklings do that.
“I have everything you could dream of!”, “I am the smartest and most erudite”, “I have no equal in beauty and grace”
Wise women do not know how to brag. They take thorny paths, make incredible efforts, make their dreams come true, achieve honor and respect.
But for them, this is not a reason to turn up their noses. Such ladies never forget about those who helped them become beautiful, happy or successful.
They give deserved thanks to those around them, and do not emphasize their own importance in front of everyone. This is a great quality.
By the way, braggarts always exaggerate their merits. Their main goal is to attract attention and hear enthusiastic responses.
“I think my idea is absurd, forget about it”, “I said something stupid”
Representatives of the weaker sex, full of wisdom, will never call their own thoughts delusional.
They will defend their ideas to the last. As a result, those around them will understand that the proposals of smart ladies are truly wonderful and worthwhile.
In fact, sensible women don't have bad ideas.
“I told you so!”, “I warned you!”, “You do everything your own way, you never listen to my advice!”
Accumulated wisdom of life does not allow smart women to judge and scold a person who has made a mistake. No one will ever hear such phrases from their lips.
These sharp words can cause great pain to a desperate interlocutor who finds himself in a difficult situation.
Such actions are not typical of smart women. They always support and encourage upset people.
Yes, these unfortunate people made a big mistake, but that doesn't mean you need to "drown" them! It's much better to come up to them, hug them and say a kind word.
“Let’s stop at this diner and chat”, “I love small talk, it’s a great distraction”
Smart ladies have a negative attitude towards meaningless dialogues.
That's why they don't chat with their girlfriends for hours on end, spread gossip, or chase stupid news.
Such women start a dialogue competently – they set the direction of the conversation and discuss worthwhile topics. These serious persons know the value of time.
“I will agree only because I respect you”, “Okay, but it will cost me great sacrifices”
Smart women don't make excuses to co-workers, neighbors, friends, or relatives if they don't want to do what these people ask of them.
Such phrases sound disrespectful, no matter how you look at it. These methods are unacceptable for wise ladies.
If they have no desire to help a person or meet him halfway, then they will refuse without regret or excuse.
“Don’t worry, it’s a mere trifle!” “If I were you, I wouldn’t focus on it.”
Smart women never reproach their friends or call their problems trivial matters.
They know that all people have different mental organizations.
Accordingly, someone worries about minor troubles, and someone copes with grief and big troubles with a smile on their face. Each interlocutor needs an individual approach.
Previously, 5 phrases were named that can be used to resolve any conflict.
