Quite often women do not see the whole problem as a whole and do not agree with the only correct solution.
The woman looks at the situation only from her side and does not try to look at it from different angles in order to find a truly correct solution.
That is why in this situation you need to convince the woman so that you can maintain a good relationship with her and not become enemies.
First, talk to the woman about your problem. Try to explain everything to her as clearly and understandably as possible. Then tell her your options for solving the problem.
Ask her to express what options she sees for solving the problem. Then start to analyze all the proposed options.
At the same time, both you and she should provide arguments in support of the proposed options to show that this solution is better than the other.
Try to imagine the consequences of each solution to the problem. Tell her about all the positive aspects of the solution you propose.
If you can’t convince a woman on your own, then turn to people whose opinions are important to her and to whom she listens.
These could be her parents, close friends, sisters, aunts, grandmothers, and so on.
But before you invite them to talk to a woman, find out their opinion about your current problem.
In addition, you can find an article, a book, information on the Internet that would prove that your solution to the problem is the most correct.
You can also contact a specialist in the area where you have a problem. For example, a doctor, lawyer, psychoanalyst, and so on.
If the problem does not require any decisive and urgent action, then give the woman freedom of action.
Let her implement those solutions that seem to her the most correct in solving this problem.
If she is really wrong and her solution is incorrect, then very soon she will find out and will be forced to agree with you.
But it is much more difficult when a woman can try all the options for solutions that seem right to her, and be convinced that this is not so, but at the same time will not agree with you under any circumstances.
She may accuse you of setting it all up and that's why none of her options turned out to be correct. In this case, wasting your energy on persuasion is useless.
You can offer a compromise to a woman. For example, you can combine her version and your version of solving the problem. Then both you and she will be satisfied.
Earlier we talked about why women shouldn’t be asked about their age.
