Most people can say that there are people in their lives that they consider enemies. But what is the point of keeping enemies around?
Therefore, it is worth remembering a few tips that will help you make friends with your opponent or simply reduce the level of tension.
Find common interests
The first step to reconciliation with the enemy is to find common interests and points of contact.
Finding areas where both parties agree or share common interests can create a foundation for mutual understanding and friendship. As a rule, there are always common interests, you just need to learn how to develop them.
You need to understand the other person's emotions
It is important to put yourself in the enemy's shoes and feel what it is like to be in their situation. Showing empathy will help you understand the motives behind their behavior and find a common language for further interaction. If you can understand your enemy's emotions, it will be easier for you to understand why they act this way in certain situations and what is best to do to reduce the level of conflict.
We must not forget about respect
When starting the process of reconciliation with an enemy, it is necessary to show respect and tolerance. It is necessary to show respect for his opinion and feelings, you can even create an atmosphere of trust and openness. Of course, this is not easy to do in most situations.
Don't take everything to heart
It is important to remember that some words or actions may be offensive or cause negative emotions.
However, you shouldn't take everything to heart and worry about trifles. The process of reconciliation takes time and patience.
Also, don’t think that you’ll be able to find a common language quickly.
You need to offer help
Offering help to an enemy can be a signal of a desire to improve relations and start a new page in your mutual understanding.
Even a small gesture of kindness or support can make a big impression and help find common ground. Sometimes you need to make the first move and not be afraid to take responsibility for your own actions.
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