By comparing yourself to others, you are unlikely to achieve success.
If you win, you probably start to feel superior and judge others. If others win this "battle", your self-esteem drops.
To get rid of this habit and live a full life, try to develop two habits - this time useful ones.
Accept yourself as you are
Instead of monitoring other people's lives, focus on the positive things in your own life.
When you notice that you start comparing yourself to others, stop and look at your life and all the good things in it.
Seek to understand, not to judge
When you feel disappointed in someone, stop criticizing. Instead, try to understand the person. Maybe he is going through a difficult time, he is upset, depressed or angry. Maybe he just had no other choice.
When you understand the motives that drove a person, you will stop judging him.
With these two habits, you will learn not to compare yourself to others, get rid of envy and become a little happier.
Earlier we talked about why people deceive each other.