Why do some people easily make friends and gain the trust of strangers, while others have difficulty communicating even with close people?
The answer is simple: these people have different communication skills. If you want to "pump up" your communication skills, use the following tips.
Never interrupt your interlocutor
It shows disrespect for him. By interrupting someone, you are saying, "I'm not interested in what you have to say. I have something more important to say."
Don't finish someone else's sentences.
By doing this, you show that you do not trust his ability to express his thoughts. This can cause irritation and resentment. It is better to remain silent in such situations.
Repeat after your opponent
If you want to show that you really understand the other person, repeat their main idea. Before you agree or disagree, make sure you understand what was said correctly. Many misunderstandings arise because people think one thing, say another, and their interlocutors understand something else.
Use active listening
As mentioned, it is important to be an active listener. Show the other person that you are interested in listening to them, react to their words, and they will be grateful to you for it.
Maintain eye contact
Don't look away from other objects, look at your interlocutor. Looking into his eyes, you show that you are interested in his story. Put aside all your affairs and focus on the conversation.
Earlier we listed things that a well-mannered person would not ask about.
