There is an interesting communication skill that everyone without exception should master. First of all, it is the ability to conduct a conversation correctly.
Do you have no desire to conflict with others? Are you afraid of losing good friends? Then study carefully and analyze these 6 questions. Only ill-mannered people ask them. As you know, no one likes such "characters".
"Isn't it time for you to have a baby?"
The partners themselves should think about procreation, but not their curious acquaintances. In addition, some people consciously refuse the opportunity to become parents.
Questions concerning children always irritate and stress childless people. This is already a direct interference in someone else's family and a violation of personal space. It is stupid to label those who do not meet your expectations.
There is one more thing: one of the partners may be infertile. Of course, the person will be very offended after such questions. Therefore, think carefully before asking your friends about this.
"Are you mother and daughter?"
Sometimes women even get tears in their eyes from such tactlessness. Especially if these women are sisters or best friends.
Of course, any lady would be horrified if she were mistaken for her own sister's or friend's mother. No representative of the fairer sex wants to look older than her peers and those girls who are a little younger than them.
You don't want to get into an unpleasant situation? In that case, don't ask about kinship from women you don't know well.
Don't guess or list all sorts of statuses out loud. Wait, and soon the interlocutors themselves will reveal the main secret to you.
"What is your salary?"
Each person has individual material achievements and opportunities. Only a tactless interlocutor will be interested in someone else's salary. If you stick your nose into something that is not your business, you will receive a very aggressive answer and see a dissatisfied face of the vis-à-vis. With this question you will stun the person.
Are you afraid of earning a reputation as a curious and envious person? Then do not ask questions about people's financial situation.
"Will this tattoo last forever?"
Anyone who has ever gotten a tattoo has encountered similar questions more than once.
Most people answer calmly. But if this question is asked a hundred times, even the calmest and most modest person will lose their temper. Body drawings are done consciously. The main thing is that the tattoo owner likes it.
If you ask your counterpart such a question, he will be upset. Most likely, he will decide that you doubt the quality and beauty of the drawing applied to the body. Of course, the interlocutor will have a negative opinion of you.
"Are you going to get married or do you want to die an old maid?"
This question makes all the girls and women who are not planning to start a family in the near future go crazy.
Not every person likes to dedicate interlocutors to their personal life. Especially if their lifestyle differs from the standard, generally accepted one. No one wants to be pressured. No one wants to feel guilty and inferior.
Relatives like to pester unmarried ladies with similar questions. This situation is painful. Many representatives of the weak regiment feel inferior because of their own mothers and grandmothers.
The girls' loved ones are constantly terrorizing them, hoping to change everything for the better. But as always, it only turns out worse. Do you have an unmarried friend or sister? Don't bother her about this. The poor thing has it tough enough!
"You still haven't broken up?"
Many people prefer not to put their love affairs and everything connected with them on display. It is necessary to respect their decision. Situations are different.
Maybe your interlocutor tolerates betrayal or maintains a union with an unloved person for the sake of a small child. It is unlikely that a person would want to trumpet to the whole world about their problems on the love front.
Keep your mouth shut if you value communication with this person. Otherwise, she will start avoiding you, harboring a grudge.
Earlier we wrote about how to respond to an impudent person .
