Many people are designed in such a way that it is difficult for them to live without reference points.
That's why they choose idols and role models.
Of course, not everyone does this. However, this practice is quite common.
What kind of people are not worth admiring?
A person with a low IQ
Sometimes, in order to become famous and popular, you don’t need intelligence: in the modern world, becoming famous is not as difficult as it used to be.
That's why some not very intelligent people become opinion leaders and role models.
There is no need to set them as an example for yourself, because you need to look up to those who are smarter than you, experts note.
Immoral people
Some admire people without outstanding moral qualities, falling under their dark charm and charisma. Therefore, someone begins to imitate negative characters from movies or books.
But this is wrong.
There is nothing outstanding about immoral people, so there is nothing to admire.
People you don't know personally
It is difficult to understand a person who sincerely admires someone he does not know personally. A famous person can create any image that he may not correspond to.
Therefore, it is better to work on yourself in order to become a person that your children will look up to.
Earlier we talked about why no one likes greedy people .
