Some behavior patterns can be safely called unproductive, so it is important to overcome them in a timely manner.
Thanks to this, life will become much easier and better quality.
What behavior patterns need to be outgrown in a timely manner?
The desire to please everyone
It is important to understand that this desire is unattainable, since it is impossible to evoke sympathy from everyone. However, the important point is different: you do not have to be liked by all people without exception.
It won't do you any good anyway, but you'll be taking yourself and your social perception too seriously.
There are smarter ways to spend your energy.
"He will improve"
Of course, every person wants to believe in the best, so we hope that our partners, relatives, friends or acquaintances will be able to change and overcome their shortcomings.
Experts remind us that people can change only if they want to. You, in turn, can waste years on unjustified expectations.
Inability to accept compliments
Some people just flirt to get a more detailed compliment. However, in any case, you shouldn't do that.
If you hear kind and pleasant words addressed to you, then you just need to thank the person, and not try to convince him that he is wrong.
You have to be the best in everything
Some people spend a huge amount of time, energy and resources to prove their importance to others. So they try to prove that they are the best at everything.
But this is not productive.
Try to live at your own pace and follow your own desires and goals. You are not obligated to live up to someone else's high standards.
