It often happens that a girl who looks attractive and interesting from the outside remains alone for a long time.
Of course, this fact can be explained by simple bad luck, but it may also be that in relationships with men, a representative of the fair sex demonstrates those character traits that scare off her companions.
"Infantile child"
Undoubtedly, when meeting such a lady, a young man will feel more courageous, strong and successful.
At the same time, not all men are ready to take responsibility for such an "adult child". An adult and established person needs an ally by his side, not a capricious spoiled girl.
"Strong, independent"
Most often, a woman demonstrates on the first date that she can do everything herself, if she has a history of codependent relationships. So she wants to build a new relationship in a completely different tone.
However, such a defensive reaction looks like a bad temper for most men. It is unlikely that anyone will want to spend their time trying to warm your cold heart. Instead, it is very likely that a codependent guy or an abuser will bite on such a bait.
"Mother"
If you are ready to bring your chosen one home-baked buns to work from the very first day or furiously iron his shirts, be prepared for the fact that such obsessive behavior will scare the man.
Such a woman looks attractive only in the eyes of very infantile men. Think: do you need it?