Often women attribute failures in relationships with men to luck or bad luck.
But is it really a matter of corruption or some other metaphysics?
Clinical psychologist Margarita Alekseeva told Lady Mail.ru why not all women manage to build long-lasting relationships with men.
What is the reason?
It turns out that it's not a matter of luck or lack thereof.
In such situations, you should change your negative views and behavioral habits that your parents instill in you in childhood.
For example, many people are afraid of quarrels in everyday relationships. But in fact, they are inevitable and happen in every couple.
However, the factor of luck or bad luck still exists.
And you can influence it by changing your attitude towards the situation and your attention to it.
For example, for some people, a breakup is a new experience, while for others it is drama and a reason to become depressed.
But this circumstance alone cannot protect against a series of failures.
What to do
To do this, the expert advises analyzing your feelings.
The first is what you felt after a breakup or a series of breakups. It is important to ask yourself what was done wrong.
The second is to pay attention and focus on feelings or activities that bring satisfaction.
This will strengthen your confidence in yourself, in the correctness of your actions and decisions.
It is also important to learn to defend your boundaries. If your partner acts contrary to your interests, then tell him about it.
Stop being afraid of separation and don't blame others for your failures.
Remember that no one is obligated to satisfy your needs, and if you remain silent about what you want from a man, you may never get it.
