Why a man promises but does nothing: experts list the reasons

06.12.2024 16:30

If a man promised to take out the trash or vacuum, but didn’t do it, that’s not so bad.

The real problems begin when a man is not going to look for a job, does not want to change anything in the relationship, or tells stories about the beautiful life while continuing to watch football on TV.

Experts assessed the situation and told when serious problems begin for men and their women.

First of all, motivation

Your partner must have been frivolous about the relationship from the start. Then you can pack your things and leave, or put the man's things on the landing.

It is more difficult if he has lost motivation. Then both partners must get involved in the work.

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Secondly, self-esteem

Perhaps he deliberately promised you something he couldn’t fulfill, that is, he was throwing dust in your eyes.

In this case, the conclusion suggests itself.

Thirdly, misunderstanding

It is possible that his intentions were very serious.

It’s just that at some point in your relationship something happened and now he doesn’t consider it necessary to fulfill his promises.

Fourth, fear

If a man is trying to avoid a conflict with a woman, he can promise her anything.

Fifth, priorities

Consider that your man may actually have more important things to do than what you want from him.

Before making a decision, discuss the situation. If your partner understands that not keeping promises is causing you pain, then all is not lost.

If not, then you're just getting involved with an emotionally immature person.

Igor Zur Author: Igor Zur Internet resource editor


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  1. First of all, motivation
  2. Secondly, self-esteem
  3. Thirdly, misunderstanding
  4. Fourth, fear
  5. Fifth, priorities