Any woman can find herself in a similar situation. She can ask a man for something, and in response - zero attention.
An experienced woman will immediately begin to look for the reason for such behavior - and this is correct, because such a reaction of a man cannot be accidental.
Psychologists have explained the reason for this behavior of the man. It turns out that if it is interpreted incorrectly, it can lead to aggression.
First, vain expectations
Rarely do couples sit down at the table with the purpose of dividing household chores.
Only in healthy relationships do partners try to help each other as much as they can.
But it also happens that a woman counts on help (silently), and a man believes (also silently) that if the woman is silent, then she can handle everything herself.
Only an open dialogue and a request for help can change the situation, but necessarily without making claims.
Secondly, overload
It also happens the other way around, that a man is really overloaded at work, with household chores and in other areas.
In this case, any request from a woman is seen as an additional burden for him, which causes a reaction appropriate to the circumstances.
This happens when a woman overestimates the capabilities of her chosen one, or does not support him in those areas of activity that are a priority for the man.
Thirdly, responsibility
A man may consider his work more important, or not fulfill a woman's request, wanting to avoid responsibility.
But even in this case, when turning to a man for help, a woman should not blame him or make claims.
It is vital to find a solution that suits everyone, but this cannot be done if the capabilities of each party are ignored.
