Normal relationships are built on mutual respect, trust and understanding.
However, there are certain actions and behavior patterns that can destroy even the strongest relationships, causing irreparable damage to both partners.
Treason
Betrayal of trust through infidelity causes deep trauma to the partner. Casual relationships or long-term affairs on the side are equally destructive to the couple.
Rebuilding trust after betrayal is extremely difficult, and sometimes impossible.
Financial control
Controlling a partner's finances, forcing loans, concealing income or shared expenses are considered serious violations.
Financial dependence makes a person vulnerable and limits his freedom of choice.
Disrespect for personal boundaries
Violating personal space, reading personal correspondence, and monitoring social connections demonstrate a lack of respect for the partner.
Normal relationships require the existence of personal boundaries and their observance.
Lies and deceit
Systematic lying destroys the foundation of relationships. Concealing important information, deception in essential matters undermine trust between partners.
The constant need to verify your partner's words is emotionally draining.
Neglect of feelings
Ignoring the emotional needs of a partner, devaluing his experiences, and refusing to support him in difficult times indicate emotional immaturity.
This kind of behavior leads to emotional burnout.
Disrespect for partner's family
Open hostility or aggression towards the partner's family creates constant tension.
Attempts to turn against the family or demands to stop communicating with relatives are unacceptable.
Manipulation of children
Using children as a tool to put pressure on a partner is a particularly cynical form of manipulation.
Turning children against the other parent harms all parties involved.
Disclaimer
The inability to admit one's mistakes, shifting the blame onto a partner or external circumstances indicate an immature personality.
Constantly promising to change without taking real action indicates an unwillingness to work on the relationship.
Disrespect for professional activity
Dismissive attitude towards a partner's work, obstruction of career growth, ridicule of professional achievements demonstrate a lack of support and respect for personal development.
