The quarrels and disagreements of lovers are not as scary as their stubbornness and unwillingness to compromise.
Many people are simply not prepared for such a turn of events, believing that everything was great for them up to a certain point. But this is not true.
Experts say that most often lovers face the following problems, which can be solved if you know the reason for their occurrence.
Why do lovers quarrel?
1. When the romantic period ends and lovers learn everything about each other, they may feel bored together.
It is necessary to be able to maintain interest, look for something new in each other and try to spend more time alone without smartphones and TV.
2. The next important point is the lack of passion in the relationship.
Don't be afraid to talk about what attracts you, excites you, or what you lack, especially if it concerns your intimate life.
3. Lovers should be able to plan a family budget. Financial literacy is simply necessary.
Otherwise, it will be impossible to avoid a showdown over who earns more and who spends more.
4. Lack of attention and compliments, neglect of interests push the partner’s feelings into the background.
This may lead to mistrust, jealousy, and contacts on the side.
5. Everyday relationships should even be put in first place.
In some families, it is still accepted that a woman’s place is in the kitchen, in church, and in the nursery, and a man should be responsible for financial well-being.
Psychologists advise lovers to discuss all these topics before they decide to legalize their relationship.
This requires open dialogue and a mutual desire to save the created union.
