Usually, the decision to divorce is preceded by reflection and visits to a psychologist, which sometimes saves even a seemingly doomed union.
In some cases, it is possible to understand that a marriage is doomed even without outside intervention.
Experts have explained how one can conclude that divorce is just around the corner.
Nobody wants to save a marriage.
If both partners are not interested in maintaining the relationship, then no specialist will help.
And vice versa: if there is a desire, then even the most hopeless union can be saved.
Nobody respects each other
Disrespect is shown at the level of everyday communication and non-verbal contacts.
This may be an unwillingness to listen to complaints, contempt, sarcasm and other inadequate reactions when one of the partners intends to talk about problems.
No one forgets grievances
Asking for forgiveness and forgiving are equally difficult. It is important that partners do not return to what they once experienced.
But if partners are not averse to reminding each other of something bad, then there can be no talk of any emotional closeness or other high feelings.
Nobody is looking for compromise.
Gradually, scandals and quarrels become a habit, and partners stop thinking about finding a compromise and ways to reconcile.
As a result, they simply coexist together, considering it the norm.
In such cases, it is important to make a common decision and consult a psychologist or stop ruining each other's lives.
