How to Know You're Ready for a Relationship and Not Running from Loneliness: It's Easy to Make a Mistake

27.11.2024 19:29

The desire to let another person into your life on a permanent basis can easily be confused with the desire to get rid of loneliness.

You can make such a decision only after you feel completely ready for a new life.

Here are some questions to answer before making the only right decision.

Firstly, a guarantee of stability

You need to be prepared for difficulties. Don't rule out that fate will trip you up again.

Therefore, you need to be sure that your friends or family will support you and that you will not have financial or other problems when you break up.

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Secondly, work on yourself

Every person is the embodiment of habits and shortcomings against the background of rare virtues.

When the romantic season ends, it turns out that the partners are not so ideal anymore.

Therefore, you need to be able to work on your shortcomings and be able to tolerate other people.

Thirdly, the most important thing

There is actually no point in starting to build a new relationship if you haven't sorted out the old one.

After going through a breakup with your ex-partner, you need to be sure that you won’t have a casual relationship with him or that you won’t want to call him or write to him.

Without dealing with the past, people often enter into relationships only so that the new partner can fill the void or relieve loneliness.

For reference

Loneliness is the state of a lonely person who finds himself in conditions of real or imaginary communicative isolation from other people, a breakdown in social connections, and a lack of meaningful communication.

Igor Zur Author: Igor Zur Internet resource editor


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  1. Firstly, a guarantee of stability
  2. Secondly, work on yourself
  3. Thirdly, the most important thing