New Year is a time of joy, anticipation of miracles and joyful bustle. We decorate the tree, choose gifts, prepare delicious dishes for the festive table and invite guests.
However, this magical night often becomes the cause of disagreements in the family. Especially if his mother is among the guests.
Why a mother-in-law can cause conflict
Each of us has our own ideas about the ideal New Year celebration. Some want to see certain guests, some don’t want to deviate from culinary traditions, and for some it’s especially important to receive a specific gift.
These differences can lead to misunderstandings, especially between the young housewife and her husband's mother.
What to do to avoid conflict
Let's start with choosing gifts. If you are looking for a present for your mother-in-law, try to take into account her tastes and needs.
But it's not enough to hand your "second mom" a gift bag: be sure to thank her for the support she provides to your family, as well as for the fact that she once gave birth to your husband.
Thus, by expressing your respect and appreciation, a warm atmosphere will reign in the house.
Let's consider another potential conflict zone - the holiday table. If you know that your mother-in-law has special culinary preferences, try to satisfy them - cook a couple of dishes that she likes.
Finally, try to enlist your man's support. Let him talk to his mother in advance about how hard you are trying to create a good holiday and ask her to be patient.
How to Respond to Criticism from Your Mother-in-Law
If, despite all your efforts, your mother-in-law still finds something to complain about, respond to criticism with patience.
Everyone has the right to their own opinion - keep that in mind.
If your response is calm and friendly, you will be able to avoid escalating the conflict.
