Psychologists encourage men and women to constantly work on their relationships and their habits.
Working together will help save love, even when the situation seems hopeless. You just have to want it.
Psychologist Tatyana Vasilkova told Aif.ru in an interview about the habits that kill the brightest feelings.
Upbringing
It is bad when partners try to remake their other half.
When instead of a real personality, an image appears that a man and a woman strive for, not noticing something important.
Control
Unspoken things and scandals will not take long to appear in families where partners force each other to report where they have been and what they have done.
This is no longer a living interest, but a desire to control every step.
Consumerism
Partners should support and inspire. It is not good if one constantly gives, and the other gets used to the fact that he should be helped.
One day the realization will come that someone is empty, followed by disappointment in the choice.
Humiliation
Quarrels happen to everyone, but if a man and a woman stoop to mutual humiliation, then there is no longer any point in talking about any bright feelings.
Duty
Being under constant pressure of obligations can throw anyone off balance.
Statements that a wife “should” cook and a man “should” earn money kill love quickly and imperceptibly.