After a major scandal, many couples prefer not to deal with the problems, but to throw them out of their heads as quickly as possible.
Their favorite way to achieve what they want is shopping and gifts.
Why is this bad?
This behavior, firstly, pushes existing problems in the relationship into the background, and secondly, gives rise to commercialism.
What happens if a man invites his significant other to a restaurant after every mistake he makes?
As a result, the girl will have an incentive to constantly blame her partner. The result will be an unstable relationship, the girl will be constantly offended, and the guy will feel as if he has become her “personal ATM”.
What to do
The answer is simple: don't avoid, but solve the problems that arise. If your trust has been broken, talk to your partner about it, and if you feel undervalued, listen to your partner and take action.
Make an effort to improve communication.
Gifts will not restore trust and harmony in a relationship. Give presents not when everything is bad, but when everything is good between you. Do not use gifts as a means to hide difficulties.
