Love is a complex and multifaceted feeling. Sometimes love is mutual and harmonious, and sometimes it becomes a source of suffering and torment.
The second description fits the situation when a person finds himself in a difficult situation, having feelings for two people at the same time.
What to do if you love two people
If you are in a polyamorous relationship, then there are no problems for you at all.
Those who prefer monogamy will have to make a difficult choice: break up with one of the partners or with both at once. Or you can go all out, but this option is unlikely to be easy, because cheating is often accompanied by guilt, shame and other unpleasant experiences.
There is no instruction that would solve all the problems at once, but there are several steps that will help you make a decision.
Sort out your feelings
Answer yourself honestly whether you really feel sympathy towards two people.
Understand the reasons for falling in love
Feelings do not always arise for specific reasons, but sometimes they can still be identified.
Let's give an example: you've been in one relationship for a long time, the stage of first falling in love has passed, and you're faced with the realization that you and your partner are not a single whole, but two different entities. At this point, the adjustment period begins, which is generally normal, and leads to the creation of an even healthier and more harmonious union.
But not everyone is ready for such a turn of events, and sometimes the partner, feeling the cooling, experiences fear and begins to look for another love.
This is just one of many possible reasons - be honest with yourself when looking for them.
Decide what each partner means to you
Think about what needs you manage to meet in each relationship, what values you develop and what prospects await you.
It is quite possible that after this you will finally be able to decide what to do next.
