It is very difficult to part with a loved one.
Unfortunately, many people who are left without a significant other make very serious mistakes.
First of all, this concerns the representatives of the fair half of humanity.
Some girls going through a difficult period only make the situation worse with their excessive emotions.
So, what should a woman not do after breaking up with her partner?
Urgent search for a new partner
After a breakup, some girls immediately find a “replacement” for their ex.
In some cases, it's about a loveless relationship. The woman simply wanted to show that "someone needs her."
There is no need to prove anything to anyone! It is okay if you are alone for some time. The search for a new partner should be thorough.
Try with all your might to get your partner back
After a breakup, many girls have this thought: “Maybe it’s worth trying to start all over again?”
If your ex-boyfriend doesn't mind, then why not renew the relationship?
And if the man refuses? In this case, just leave him alone!
Trying to get someone back who is clearly resisting is a grave mistake. You will make things worse for both yourself and your ex-partner.
Remove him from your life completely
Some girls choose the opposite strategy: they completely forget about their ex-boyfriend and refuse to communicate with him.
There is no need to show that you are offended. Remain calm, polite and open. Who knows: maybe in the future this person will help you in one or another area of life.
Continue to help him
Continuing to communicate with your ex-significant other is normal.
But there is no need to continue playing the role of “hostess”.
Don't cook for your ex-partner, don't clean his apartment, don't mend his clothes. Otherwise, the man will decide that he has a "free assistant" that he can exploit.
Complain to others
After a breakup, you don't need to "burden" your girlfriends with stories about your experiences and your "bad ex." Personal things should remain personal.