It is known that in most cases men spend a lot of time, effort and resources in order to win the favor of the woman they are interested in.
At first glance, it may seem that the representatives of the stronger sex should only be glad if the ladies begin to make their task easier by starting the correspondence themselves.
However, experts note that in most cases such relationships rarely become serious.
Why does this happen?
As it turns out, sometimes it is not only the fact that a pretty lady has started to show them signs of attention or looks clearly interested that is important to men.
On an instinctive level, representatives of the stronger sex want to pursue the woman they like, so elements of courtship also bring a kind of satisfaction.
If you decide to write first, the man will be deprived of this opportunity. And since he did not have to put in a lot of effort, such ladies are not valued.
Therefore, you should avoid the temptation to write to a man first.