For relationships that are not the happiest and most harmonious, divorce is not a dead end, but an opportunity to start living anew. The question is – when and how to make this decision?
Some people consult with their relatives, a psychologist or best friends. Some people have to make decisions alone.
Experts told how to make a decision about divorce and what questions you need to answer honestly.
List of questions
First, ask yourself: do you want to save your existing marriage?
Secondly, clarify: are you ready to work on yourself and your relationship as a couple?
Third, ask yourself what feelings you have for your partner and what feelings you will have for a new partner after the divorce.
Fourth, think about whether your new life after divorce seems more interesting to you than your previous one, or does the very thought of it cause fear and uncertainty?
What next?
The most important thing in such a situation is to answer honestly.
But even after the answers to the questions have been received, there is no point in rushing to submit an application.
Discuss your decision with your partner. Perhaps in this situation he will become more open, and you will find out why the relationship went wrong.
Often, after such conversations, the relationship between a couple becomes stronger.
But if it turns out that the other half is also thinking about divorce, then you can avoid scenes, quarrels and scandals, and separate quietly and peacefully.
