At first glance, a kind man is an ideal candidate for the role of a husband.
However, not every girl wants to start a family with such a person.
Many representatives of the fair sex have a positive attitude towards kind and sympathetic guys, but do not particularly want to marry them.
Why? The thing is that a good husband has not only advantages. Unfortunately, there are also disadvantages that can ruin family life. And women understand this.
A kind person will help strangers
Some helpful people spend a lot of time fulfilling other people's requests.
It's good if the husband helps his wife and her parents.
But what if a man constantly comes to the aid of strangers without asking for anything in return?
Such dependability tires a person, he begins to forget to show full care for his spouse and children. Such behavior does not have the best effect on family life.
Will constantly avoid quarrels
It would seem that a man who knows how to “extinguish” family conflicts or simply does not participate in them is an ideal spouse.
In fact, such a person does not hear all of his partner’s complaints.
Yes, quarrels are prevented. But problems are not solved! After all, conflicts do not arise just like that: there is some reason.
It is better to argue, but ultimately come to a consensus and find a compromise, than to remain silent.
Will not talk about problems
A good man certainly won’t want to “burden” his other half with his problems.
Is this good? No! Because the person will hide his claims.
The wife simply won’t know that she is making some mistake in her relationship with her husband.
The result will be the same difficulty as in the previous point: the problems will remain unresolved.
