Women will be interested to know how to argue with a man. Arguments arise because of all sorts of nonsense.
Even the most casual conversation can turn into a fight because of one word or phrase. And the relationship may not stand up to such a test.
Experts told how a woman should correctly argue with a man and what mistakes should be avoided.
Moment of dispute
It should not be successful, but timely. For example, there is no point in sorting things out when a man is tired or irritated after work. It is important to be able to hear each other, and not shout down each other.
The purpose of the dispute
Often a woman will not calm down until she thinks she has emerged victorious from this conflict. But in reality the man remains the same, and the time was wasted.
It would be good if the man didn’t draw any decisive conclusions.
Emotions
By heating up the situation with tears and emotions, a woman tries to manipulate a man. Men, even in a dispute, continue to think logically and, under the emotional pressure of an upset woman, stop the quarrel.
But it’s too early to celebrate victory – such hysterics destroy relationships.
Resentments and mistakes
Having talked about some moment in life, there is no need to return to the mistakes of the past again and again. You need to talk only on a specific topic.
Monologue instead of dialogue
An argument is a conversation, maybe in raised tones, but necessarily with the participation of both parties. If a woman talks non-stop, it does not mean that a man has nothing to say. He has already understood that his partner does not care about his opinion, but only about someone to splash out negativity on.
Prohibited Techniques
This includes comparing yourself to other men or bringing in relatives, girlfriends or children to your side in an argument.
All these mistakes have a negative impact on the relationship and distance partners from their cherished goal – to come to a common opinion without quarrels and scandals.
Earlier we talked about why a woman should not give a man expensive gifts .
