People don't like it when things are hidden from them. But it's not just that the unknown breeds fear.
In relationships, this circumstance is considered the main factor that sows mistrust and quarrels.
According to experts, there are three main signs that someone in a relationship is not telling you everything.
The partner went on the defensive
This behavior is aimed at self-defense. A person may hide some failure or incident from his personal life because he may be afraid of ridicule or reproaches.
It is quite possible that his fears are exaggerated, but in any case, the situation requires resolution, otherwise it may affect the quality of the relationship.
The partner acts as a protector
In this case, it may seem as if your partner is protecting you from something that could cause pain or cause a fight.
Perhaps the fears are also unfounded. But the partner is probably worried about what conclusions others will draw in this situation.
Partner tries to save the relationship
Sometimes people, having learned a secret, utter the sacred phrase: “I wish I hadn’t known this.”
So, if you think that the price of revealing a secret is a ruined relationship, then maybe you shouldn’t go into details?
If a person is dear to you and you are dear to him, then it is better to think about whether you are ready to accept this truth and correctly understand your partner.
Earlier we talked about what actions a man cannot forgive .