It is important to understand that without mutual understanding and respect it is impossible to build long-term relationships.
Even sincere feelings will not be able to support your couple for long if you simply do not want to hear each other.
However, all disagreements can be overcome if desired, experts remind.
What tricks will help achieve mutual understanding in a couple
You are dealing with an individual person, not your property.
Many people make this mistake: they start to remake an already formed personality to their taste and discretion. This is impossible.
It is worth understanding that we are dealing with a separate individual with his or her own tastes, habits and priorities. You just need to learn how to talk correctly if you are not satisfied with some of your partner's individual traits.
Avoid scandals, shouting and strong displays of emotion
Sometimes we want to show how much our partner upset us or disappointed us with their behavior. When emotions overwhelm a person, it is extremely difficult to conduct an adequate dialogue.
Therefore, put off all your questions for a few days: this will help you calm down and talk normally.
Your partner also makes concessions to you
Sometimes people think that they are the only ones who make concessions, accepting a person with his shortcomings. But everyone has negative qualities.
If your partner turns a blind eye to your shortcomings, then you can do the same.
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