When raising girls, parents often read them fairy tales about princes - and it is with this hope that they fall in love for the first time with teenagers they like.
But, as a rule, after school, the paths of young Romeo and Juliet diverge, they often leave their hometown and, as a result of a long separation, break off relations.
They meet new people with whom they decide to start a family. After the wedding, many women, who still miss their childhood boyfriend, are in complete disarray in their heads.
Why does a woman, being married, love another?
The realization that first love has not passed does not come immediately after marriage, but a little later: when family responsibilities, children, and a monotonous and boring life appear.
Because of this, many women feel like they made a mistake and their first partner could have provided them with a much more dignified and easier life.
How to find happiness
In such a situation, a woman has only two options: divorce or changing her attitude towards her husband.
If you are sure that your life and children's well-being will improve after separation, the best solution would be divorce. However, first make sure that the person you love is also not indifferent to you and is ready to get married.
Perhaps in this case you will find your true happiness. Your husband will understand you and forgive you over time, and you will explain everything to the children when they grow up.
If you doubt that life with another man will be better than with your current spouse, try to change your attitude towards your husband, and try to stop loving your first boyfriend. Perhaps he is not as perfect as you think. Look at him from a different angle. Remember that there are no perfect people, and their merits may seem exaggerated in our imagination.
Previously, we talked about how to improve relationships with adult children .
