You shouldn’t lose heart and think that after 40 years the chances of finding a partner and creating a relationship are irretrievably lost.
We must remember that the world is changing.
Sexologist and psychotherapist Dmitry Orlov told Doctor Peter in an interview that today age has finally ceased to determine female attractiveness.
There are a sufficient number of ways to maintain shape and appearance, which, if desired, allows a woman to look much younger.
And, despite stereotypes about “standards of attractiveness,” a mature man chooses a partner based solely on his own preferences.
Therefore, the age of 40 should not be perceived as a milestone after which many people start to feel depressed because their lives, including their personal lives, have not worked out.
By the age of 35-40, most people have gone through the process of achieving their goals in various areas, and this creates the basis for the formation of confidence and a stable identity. These are the processes that lead to the formation of certain human qualities that can cause sympathy and sexual interest, the specialist noted.
And the experience accumulated over the years, together with these qualities, gives a person the opportunity to live the way he wants, and not be guided by stereotypes, other people’s opinions or obligations.
Earlier we talked about the signs that a man is terrible in a relationship .
