You've discovered your partner's infidelity: should you cheat in return?

05.05.2024 14:40

After the fact of betrayal is revealed, a person is overcome by severe stress, which, in turn, leads to clouding of consciousness.

In such a state, it is unlikely that anyone can think clearly and soberly - instead, they want to cause their other half the same pain and make them suffer.

It seems to us that our own suffering will immediately become easier and justice will triumph.

Perhaps the first thing that comes to mind is to change in response, but this idea can hardly be called good.

Firstly, cheating out of revenge will definitely not bring relief to your condition – most likely, the pain after “retaliatory measures” will only increase, because after some time you will regret what you did.

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Secondly, after cheating you will feel disgusting, because you have trampled on your own moral values, which served as your guide in life.

Because of the reciprocal betrayal, you will lower yourself in your own eyes and stop respecting yourself, thereby starting the process of self-destruction.

Thirdly, betrayal out of revenge is the final and irreversible point in your relationship. If there is only one traitor in the family, then there is still a chance to fix everything, but if two betrayed, such a union can no longer be called a family.

Earlier we talked about 5 actions without which a relationship will not be happy.

Elena Shimanovskaya Author: Elena Shimanovskaya Editor of Internet resources