How can one not recall Leo Tolstoy's famous saying about dissimilar unhappy families? Modern researchers of problematic relationships are in no hurry to contradict the classics.
Moreover, they named the most popular phrases that directly indicate that problems have begun in a relationship or in the family.
You can talk as much as you like about toxic people, lack of harmony and friendship, but the following phrases will be a red flag.
1. It doesn’t matter which of the partners says these words more often, but usually the reproach begins with the words “You always/never…”.
After this is said, spouses and partners are deprived of their last chance to get to the truth and solve the problem.
2. The next accusation, usually made by women, is lack of attention. At the same time, many ladies forget that their man is sometimes busy solving issues that the woman, according to one version, cannot cope with, and according to another, does not want to.
3. "Again, I have to do everything myself," says a woman with a sigh, loading the washing machine or the dishwasher. At the same time, she forgets that her man bought her useful household appliances to make her work easier.
Whether this is true or not, in any case, a hint of inequality is visible.
4. Then you may hear a phrase that someone is obliged to do certain things. But practice shows that an abundance of demands does not strengthen relationships, but quite the opposite. Experienced partners take uncooperative halves with cunning, not reproaches.
5. And the nail in the coffin is the words about fatigue. It is possible that a man and a woman have not been able to find a common language for a long time.
And here it is important to delve into the reasons, because something must have provoked this problem.
An example could be one of the partners constantly complaining about some problems. And the other partner would be happy to sympathize, but he is really tired of listening to all this.
Earlier we talked about what male habits repel women .
