Why Are You Still Single: Unrealistic Expectations Are One Reason

12.04.2024 14:42

Some people cannot find a partner because they constantly expect something from their partner, but they themselves cannot offer anything in return.

Let's illustrate what has been written with an example.

Imagine an unemployed, unathletic man who spends all day watching TV. At the same time, he complains that the women he is attracted to somehow do not appreciate his spiritual qualities and therefore reject him. Is that why?

There is another example when a person is ready to try for the sake of a relationship, but at the same time is looking for a partner who would 100% meet his needs and expectations.

Thus, young, well-groomed and educated women who periodically enter into relationships end up alone, because the breakup with the partner occurs on their initiative. The reason may be different musical tastes, the absence of a PhD in philology, etc.

Young woman
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In such a situation, it is worth remembering that every person has shortcomings, including those we date, and this is normal.

Instead of focusing all your energy on finding the perfect partner, you should look for those whose shortcomings are comparable to your own.

When you learn to deal with your imperfections and accept the shortcomings of others, you will forget about loneliness.

Earlier we told you how to figure out if a man is in love .

Elena Shimanovskaya Author: Elena Shimanovskaya Internet resource editor