Psychologists claim that no one is immune from a relationship with an abuser. This means that this trouble can happen to both a woman and a man.
But what character traits should a person have who will be chosen as a victim by a narcissist?
According to experts , this category does not include people who are downtrodden by life, but rather self-confident and accomplished individuals.
Tastes of abusers
It is a mistake to think that narcissistic personalities are looking for losers and henpecked husbands.
Experts compare abusers to parasitic insects that are always looking for the best.
Yes, it is easier to manipulate if you have a weak-willed person as a companion. But if we are talking about an abuser, then this is not what he needs.
As an energy vampire, he chooses a strong, energetic and purposeful person.
Therefore, a dunce has less chance of falling into the clutches of a narcissist than a bright personality.
But this does not mean that, once he finds himself next to a strong person, the abuser will not return to his old ways.
He will manipulate, assert himself at someone else’s expense, and seek recognition.
But we must not forget that often these are people who lack talent or other personal qualities.
Previously, we talked about 11 signs of deception .
