A woman's desire to get married can sometimes reach incredible proportions, thereby developing into mania.
Why Women Strive to Get Married
The roots of such behavior are often found in childhood: often, even little girls are taught that happiness and success cannot be imagined without family well-being and marriage.
It is enough to remember how most children's fairy tales end: they got married and lived happily ever after.
In addition, stereotypes are imposed by society itself, considering a married woman to be normal, and a single one to be somehow different.
Finally, a woman may not understand her own needs and therefore not satisfy them.
In this case, the partner is seen not as just a life partner, but as someone who will take care of the woman and look after her, thereby filling the void that exists in life.
Why You Should Say Goodbye to Obsessive Thoughts
Firstly, too strong a desire to formalize a relationship scares off many men.
Secondly, due to the haste to decorate one of the pages of the passport with a marriage stamp, a woman risks linking her life with an unsuitable partner.
The result is a painful and toxic relationship. Do you need that?
How to stop wanting to get married
To get rid of the ever-haunting thoughts of a white dress and veil, you should ask yourself the question: “Why do you want to get married?” and answer it honestly.
In addition, you should make every effort to learn to live in harmony with yourself, enjoy life and feel happy regardless of whether you are alone or there is a man nearby.
Finally, stop idealizing marriage - marriage does not guarantee that you will be happy.
Previously, we talked about how to distinguish domestic violence from an ordinary quarrel.
