Your soul is not an open book. There are things that even your closest people should not know. Revelations cannot be limitless, it is necessary to observe the measure. Do not tell these things to relatives.
Secrets entrusted to you by another person
A friend or acquaintance has revealed his or her biggest secret to you? Keep it, no matter what. You have no right to loosen your tongue!
It is not for nothing that this person has made you the keeper of her secrets. It turns out that you inspire her trust. Do not let down someone who is so open and honest with you.
Is someone trying to get someone else's secrets out of you? Using manipulation? Don't give in, continue to remain silent.
Imagine that you have revealed all your cards to your vis-à-vis, and he has disgraced you in front of the whole world. It is unpleasant, isn't it? You are not a mean person to betray a friend, much less a relative.
Your grandiose plans, bold ideas, undertakings
Are you looking forward to great things? Are you itching to do something extraordinary? Keep quiet about it.
It is unacceptable to blab to everyone about something that has not yet happened. Remember the famous expression: "If you want to make God laugh, tell him about your plans"? Behave modestly and secretly if you do not want everything to go to waste.
There is a real danger: your friends or relatives may become jealous. Then they will gladly take advantage of your talkativeness.
For example, they will steal your idea, question the genius of your bold undertaking, and prevent you from implementing your plans.
Negative energy of interlocutors is a terrible thing. It sweeps away everything in its path. People who exude negativity are real pessimists.
If you encounter such individuals, they will try to turn you into a pessimist too. They will give a hundred arguments proving that your dream is unrealizable.
If they don't work, the pessimists will overwhelm you with their compelling life examples. You won't get rid of them that easily.
Toxic interlocutors will only let you out of their clutches when you give up and refuse to take the actions you have planned. Be careful!
Your work activities, working relationships with colleagues, professional secrets
Everything that happened to you during the day at work should remain within the walls of the office, government agency or factory. This information is not for strangers' ears.
Have you heard anything about professional ethics? It is strictly observed by all doctors, teachers, police officers, lawyers, psychotherapists and other workers.
Did you learn a story at work? Don't discuss it with anyone. Keep it confidential. It doesn't matter what information you received from colleagues, patients or clients. It is not subject to disclosure.
Are you one of the above-mentioned specialists? Know that you may be punished if you violate official secrets.
Ask curious relatives to treat your profession with respect and understanding.
You are too competent an employee to discuss serious work matters with chatty relatives. Respect the organization you work for!
Favorable atmosphere in your family nest, happy events
Is your marriage all calm and quiet? That's a good reason to keep your mouth shut. Don't tell your parents about your upcoming trip abroad, an expensive gift for your significant other, or a great purchase for your home.
Smart people don't trumpet about their personal happiness on every corner and don't brag. They don't want others to know about their idyll in relationships.
It's great if your partner loves you, your children obey you, and your money keeps growing. Appreciate the happiness that has fallen on your head, otherwise you will lose everything at once. Don't attract unnecessary attention to yourself.
Details of your scandals with relatives, friends, colleagues
Don't complain to your friends about your household members, don't describe to them in detail your quarrels with your relatives, co-workers, or neighbors.
Don't involve those who don't concern you in your conflicts. Everything that happened should be kept secret.
The reason for the disagreement should be known only to you and your opponent. There is a lot of harm in unnecessary talk.
Someday you will make peace with your opponent. But a quarrel will break out between you again.
It will be facilitated by the sharp-tongued people to whom you carelessly blabbed all the details of the unfortunate conflict. Don't harm yourself, keep quiet!
Earlier we talked about why people forgive their partners after cheating .
