How to understand that you can’t give a man a second chance: even if you really want to forgive

02.04.2024 11:28

Rarely does a person tend to think about the consequences of his actions. More often they do the opposite: first they think, and then they regret what they did.

There are many such examples in the relationship between a man and a woman. Not only betrayal. The main thing is to understand in time that a second chance cannot be given.

Experts have explained in what cases a woman should not forgive a man, even if she really wants to.

1. Of course, when it comes to violence, especially physical violence. But violence in any form is the suppression of someone else's will, which is not even close to love and care.

2. The next example is the habitual reproaches when a man does not care about your successes, achievements, interests and other manifestations of human qualities.

Woman
Photo: Pixabay

3. Total control should not be justified by worry. Be prepared to admit to yourself that the man left at home is more worried about himself than about a healthy relationship.

4. And the anti-example is a completely indifferent alpha male who considers your problems trivial – it’s time to change something.

5. If a man promises but does not keep his word, in a word – he is cheating. No comment.

6. When the thought appears in your head that it’s better to have a man like this, even a “lying around” one, than to be alone.

7. And if you can’t live a day without a quarrel and scandal, then why get on each other’s nerves?

Earlier we talked about why people forgive cheating .

Igor Zur Author: Igor Zur Internet resource editor