There should be healthy egoism, but it is important to remember this fine line and not confuse your behavior with egocentrism, infantilism or inattentiveness towards your partner.
However, they can become the reason for a breakup if you do not reconsider your behavior in time. Let's look at three signs.
You boycott and refuse to discuss the issue
Good relationships are built on the ability not only to voice your desires, but also on the desire to hear your partner and find a compromise.
If you do not try to resolve the dispute, but start to take offense and ignore the person next to you, then this will not lead to the normal development of the relationship, but will only cause irritation in your “other half”.
Want to break off the relationship at the first problem
Even if you have a beautiful romance, it doesn't mean you will always get what you want.
But if you don't want to worry about your partner or the problems in your relationship, but rather try to ignore them or prefer to break up rather than engage in an argument and seek a common solution, then you should reconsider your behavior.
It is worth understanding that a mature person who truly loves will not be able to tolerate threats of abandonment, simply because someone did not get their way.
Ignoring your partner's needs and opinions
If a person constantly puts only his own opinion above, refuses to listen to arguments, then this is already a "red flag" indicating an extreme degree of egoism. It is even worse if he does not pay attention to the interests and desires of his beloved.
Earlier we talked about how to prepare for a first date.
