A woman who has decided to work on herself in order to stop arguing with her man needs to learn several important rules.
They won’t help to avoid disagreements completely, but thanks to this method, the clarification of relations will end more effectively than leaving the other half offended for several days.
Experts have named three rules that will help spouses avoid unpleasant consequences in quarrels and scandals.
Don't accumulate grievances
Everyone has their shortcomings. Some people put up with them, others fight them. It's quite possible that over time everything will really get tolerable, but it's better to say out loud what irritates you right away.
At the same time, you need to be honest, take the situation into account and not get personal.
But if you accumulate grievances, then the quarrel will be like a volcanic eruption.
One quarrel - one reason
If the scandal occurred on domestic grounds, for example, someone did not take out the trash, then there is no need to go beyond the conflict.
That is, you cannot mix together dissatisfaction with interests, relatives and other not the best qualities of a spouse.
Figure it out yourself
If you want your union of hearts to last for more than one year, then try not to involve your girlfriends, mother, grandmother, and other relatives or very close friends in the process of sorting things out with your partner.
Sometimes it is really difficult without outside advice, but in any case, you need to make a decision and prepare for the consequences yourself.
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